Sometimes I think deeply about our world -  is it cruel or no, what can be if some people were more patient, loving, kind, tender, what if there were... I understand, that world is not cruel – that's we, people, who make it cruel. Everybody everywhere consider a person next to him as “nothing”, “plain population”, “grey biomass” - and such behavior develop an aggressively indifferent attitude  towards everyone. For example, if you come to clinic -  and there is a staff, who look at you and consider you to be a crowd – they do not value you as a person. In the shop, and in another place – all the same! Where there can be and how could appear that unconditional love – there is no sign of it in our society? Where can I find it? Where is it? And the answer is both simple and complex… Real and unconditional love is in God only. And though it can sound strange (because it is not so easy and acceptable to speak about God in modern society), but the fact is proven - all the forces for unconditional love for wife, friend, colleague at work, you can draw from this constant source of unconditional love! But do not think that everything would be so easy, this is a work over yourself, over nature, over habits. Maybe, you used to offend and humiliate people, but when you continue to do so, then your conscience will make you feel its influence! Habits and character will also change because you will be working over yourself. You will be a man with a mew mind, new way of thinking, new look and new accepting of the world and persons around -  despite the fact that all around are blue penguins, you will be red! Be yourself, be a person! Evolve from the grey mass. Start loving people, loving yourself. This is also one of the facts, why we do not love other people with unconditional love - because we do not love ourselves. Sometimes a sense of low self-esteem plays an evil joke with us. We do not love ourselves and as a consequence we can not love other people, wives, mothers, teacher at the school, employees at work and people in transport and on the street. But when you raise your self-esteem and fall in love with yourself, training every day in front of a mirror - telling compliments to yourself - you will soon see that this is part of you and you  will be able to see the value of other individuals. That's true. Love yourself and you will love others. And seek your force to love yourself and others people in permanent and constant source of unconditional love, in Almighty God. I wish you good luck and your changes. Work over yourself. Wish to change. And you will certainly change and become a person, who gives his neighbor the most sincere and pure unconditional love, without demanding anything in return!